we just wanted to help women stop making mistakes and get the men of their dreams—and that’s what we still do now, 20 years later!

Today, Ellen is married with two children and lives in New York, and Sherrie is married with a teenage daughter and lives in New Jersey.

Here are our three most important dating rules for women. Bring all their insecurities to the surface and spend the date being self conscious and putting themselves down or try and hide the nerves by pretending to be the worlds most sexy and confident woman and coming across as an arrogant dominatrix. Before your date think about the things you have achieved in life, what your interested in and what you want to gain in the future.

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You are a CUAO (Creature Unlike Any Other), remember?

You need to force yourself to refrain from saying anything too intense or negative that could scare a man away.

Proponents of the methods offered in the book point to The Rules as having positive results for both men and women.

They represent the point of view that men enjoy being the aggressor and are inspired to treat women better who choose behaviors which set up boundaries and slow down the courtship process.

We did The Rules, wrote The Rules, and have helped millions of women do The Rules, too. Whether you were recently hurt or haven’t been in a relationship for a while, you want immediate gratification and compensation for all the pain and heartache of recent years or even decades.

But get a grip and tell yourself there is no shortcut to courtship, things take time, so you must not act impatiently or desperately.Men are attracted to women who are self assured and confident in what they want.But don’t be so determined to prove your an independent woman that you come across as aggressive.A soul mate is someone who responds to your ad, doesn’t give up e-mailing you, tries to get your number to get a date with you and is a loving and fun companion. So beyond looking desperate, it is really a waste of time to write down “waiting for my soul mate” or anything like it.Unfortunately, you cannot attract this by writing the word down any more than you can attract wealth by writing down the word “money.” Be patient. Unfortunately, no matter what your heart says, you must hold back a bit for your own good.